I used to think I was a good listener. Heck, I was told I was by literally dozens of people. I enjoyed listening to and helping people close to me and even people I just met. It was insane how many people approached me for advice, and I was flattered and floored at the same time. Today, it seems like everyone around me wants to talk, but it couldn't make a difference if anyone was even listening. I don't enjoy it anymore. All I hear are complaints or irrelevant, shallow sentences. I find myself with no reply, because I don't even partake in conversations anymore... people just talk endlessly. I stare at the table or the wall if I lose interest; I feel no need to make eye contact anymore.
I wish someone would say a sentence that is worth replying to, and I would give that reply, and then the person would agree and/or comment, and then take a breath so I could also speak.
That would be wonderful.
I only have a photo inversely related to my rant:
This is my bunny Herbie. He never talks. He just wiggles his nose and sticks out his tongue.
Praying for you ,honey bunny!!
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